Sales Managers, Who Do You Lead?

When you ask most people about the sales training they’ve received, the answers will likely be very similar:

You reach out to the customer, engage the gatekeeper, the executives, but ultimately trying to get in front of the decision-maker. Once in front of the decision-maker, you build rapport, set some expectations, and ask some questions to get a better understanding of the pain your customer is feeling, whether it’s realized or not. The types of questions asked typically start with broad open-ended questions, and as you go along you keep digging deeper in order to uncover a pain the customer doesn’t know they have. There are some additional questions asked, and steps that follow, but up to this point, your goal has been to really get to know your customers’ needs, and what you can do to help them become more successful prior to gaining their commitment.

Why do you really care whether, or not they’re successful? Aren’t you really just trying to close the deal and take another check to the bank? Hopefully your answer is no. The check is a nice reward, and an indication of a job well done, but yes, you should care whether or not they’re successful. A customer that has invested time and money, as well as trust in you as their guide to a more successful business can pay huge dividends in the future, whether it be future business with them, or an endorsement for others to seek out your services.

If we can agree that building rapport, asking some tough questions, and understanding customers’ pain is important in building successful and lasting business relationships, presumably based on trust, why do we not do the same thing with our sales teams?

How many sales managers truly know the members of their team? When you first met with your team, did you address them as a team, or take the time to meet with each of them individually? Did you put in the same amount of effort into building rapport with each individual as you would have a million dollar sales opportunity?

Sometimes, the manager/employee relationship can be taken for granted. Either the team was already in place when the manager took over, or the manager hired some/all members of the team. In either case, it’s assumed that everyone is on the same page, with the same goals, with the same drivers. The manager’s goal could be to exceed quota in order to make more money. More money, the whole team should have that goal, right? You would assume so, and you could also assume the goal of more money is why the employees took a sales job. Well what if the reason an employee took the sales job is because they’re insecure with themselves, and closing a deal is the constant reinforcement that they need to gain enough confidence just to make it to the next week? In this case, the money could be the secondary or tertiary driver, so talking to them about making more money could fall on deaf ears. However, the manager could motivate the employee with a little confidence boosters by simply speaking some kind words from time to time, which they might find to be a lot more effective.

There may be an employee that’s simply in their role until another company with a more desirable culture has an opening. They meet the minimum requirements, but there’s no passion. No need to invest time in that employee, right? Wrong. Why do they want to leave the company they’re already with? What if they want to leave because they feel like their previous manager just didn’t care? What if they feel like they don’t have the tools to excel? As the manager, you can provide those tools, and show that you care, ultimately leading to greater success. Now you have an employee that can do better work, potentially exceeding quota, and trusts in the support structure for years to come. Just by taking a sincere interest in that employee, asking a couple of questions, you’re able to save the company thousands of dollars in recruiting, hiring, and downtime, and have an asset that can deliver for an extended period of time.

By putting forth the same, or more effort into your Team as you would a deal, you’re showing them that they matter to you at least as much as the deals you plan on closing together. Building rapport builds trust. It takes a little more time, but the more trust there is, the more communication there is. When a team effectively communicates, they’re better able to collaborate, bounce ideas off of each other, be on the lookout for common issues that may arise, and share best practices. Individually ask your Team some broad, open-ended questions to get a better idea of who they are, what drives them, what pains they may have that can negatively impact their performance. When you take an interest in identifying problems that they don’t know they have, and therefore don’t know are negatively impacting their performance, you become a trusted advisor. Work with them on finding solutions, or the support they need. Sometimes just a quick word on how they’re performing can ease a lot of tension. Now before you step out with these newly formed bonds, be sure to gain their commitment. A sale isn’t a sale until you’ve gained commitment from your customer. Gain commitment from your Team, that you’ll work toward a common goal. You’ve established the lines of communication, so that anytime either of you feel you’re not meeting the agreed upon standards, a quick conversation won’t be viewed as a negative. You can now go forth as a Team versus a bunch of individuals with varying goals.

As you transition from being a manager to a leader, you’ll see a more inspired Team. You’ll see a Team that is driven to perform for the overall benefit of the Team and company. They’ll put in the extra hours for you, and close more deals.

Make the Most of Your Morning

Do you feel rushed every morning? How does that make you feel? Irritable? Anxious? How does that affect the rest of your day? How does that affect those around you; family, friends, or co-workers?

Chances are, your morning routine is the same, if not very similar every day. You know exactly what you have to get done in order to get started and attack your day. Maybe you get started with a morning shower, make-up application (for the ladies), getting your clothes ready, making sure the kids are ready, etc. Like most people, you’re probably rushing through your morning routine, putting you in a stressed state before the day’s challenges even come your way. Why is that? Likely because you snooze, snooze, snooze, and then snooze once again until you absolutely can’t snooze anymore. Maybe you’re not a snoozer, but you set your alarm to the exact minute that allows you to maximize the amount of sleep captured in one night. Well, what happens? Aren’t you still tired? Don’t you wish you could snooze again? Don’t you still wish you had more time?

You feel the same way whether you wake up at 5:00AM, or 5:30AM. I have yet to hear someone that wakes up to an alarm clock tell me that they feel refreshed and just can’t take anymore sleep when their alarm goes off. If waking up to an alarm is going to suck anyway, embrace the suck. Take control of your morning before it takes control of you. If you wake up at 5:00AM, you have 30 extra minutes to calmly get ready for your day. You have time to meditate, to calmly reflect on the day’s goals. Reflect on the things that are important to you. How are you going to face your biggest challenge of the day? You’re now ahead of the pack vs. trying to catch up, because you’ve already done what most people aren’t willing to do. Now that you’re less stressed out, your interactions with others will be much more cordial, you won’t be as irritable, and you’ll have time to focus on the details to ensure you’re your best self.

If you don’t truly believe this will make your day better, it won’t. If you think it will be easy, it won’t be. If you’re not ready to sacrifice a few minutes of sleep for sixteen hours of peace, you’ve already read too much. This won’t work unless you’re committed to it. Before you set your alarm at night, set your mind that you’ll pop up right when your alarm goes off. Don’t give your mind the opportunity to talk you into more sleep. Don’t let it convince you that you need more sleep. Don’t let it take over. When your alarm goes off, get up, 100% of the time, 99% won’t do. If you must, set your alarm up on the other side of the room, so you have to get up to turn it off. Once you’re up, you’re up, feeling the same as you would if you allowed yourself additional sleep, only now you have time to enjoy your morning and the rest of your day.

You’ll start the day in control, having already completed one goal. You’ll be more relaxed, and get to enjoy more time in the day. Take time to enjoy watching the sun rise, it’s beautiful when you have time to focus on it and not viewing it through stressed out eyes. You’ll eventually get to the point where you wake up early without the alarm, and that’s when it gets even better.